Some couples who have been in a long relationship forget those little things that keeps the fire burning. Nowadays a long relationship is 2 years when back in the day that was a fling period. But if the fire has gone out in your relationship and you’ve tried and tried to relight it but find yourself doing the sort of things that yells out its over, then its time to stop putting the both of you through more pain and end it. Finishing a relationship is one of the hardest things to do and sometimes done prematurely. But what are the signs that proves to you its over. Here we put 10 signs for you to look out for if you think you are falling out of Love.
1You’d rather jump into bed and read a good book then jump into bed with him.
Has it been ages since you shifted that stick in to gear? Can’t remember when he had you orgasmic beyond your wildest dreams? Oh my, if your sex life has got so uninteresting that you find more pleasure in reading your book (chapter five was gripping by the way) rather than sliding into something naughty and lure him into the bedroom then girl…this isn’t good news.
2Working late every night rather then go home on time.
Stacks of paper work covering your desk is more engaging then your man? Would you prefer to get into work early then take full advantage of your mans good morning splendour? You spending more time at work in the evening with Brandon, the caretaker, then at home. If the answers are coming up yes then you don’t need to review your relationship you need to nip it in the bud.
3No longer making much of an effort notes on ideas for birthday gifts.
When its comes to getting our boyfriends gifts we are the queens of going out of our way to find out the perfect present, bugging our friends, his friends and family too. But if the day draws close like a week and you haven’t got or thought of anything, then doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out you don’t care like you used too.
Your boyfriend is your fantasy, looking at him is just yummy. He looks after your needs and wants, he’s your cream to your coffee, your bubbles to your bath. At no circumstances should you question your mans sex appeal or how much your attracted to him and so if you are its going to take more then a new dress sense to sort your predicament out. If you find yourself looking across the room at him and quietly kissing your teeth then you know that fire is washed out.
5His calls and text don’t make you smile anymore
Can you recall when you would crazily check your phone to see if he had texted? The stimulation and enjoyment of his calls? Even up to now you should still feel a warming affectionate to him when seeing his name on your screen. Having your boyfriend call you on a really bad day at work should take a some weight of you shoulders and put you more at ease. If it doesn’t then its time for the talk.
6Constantly engaging in flirtatious situations with men
Out with the girls enjoying a good time out, feeling naughty and troublesome taking numbers from random guys, and even thinking of meeting up with them? Well its self explanatory your mind is not on him indoors your hunger is for something else. And we dont want to cheat on him do we? so its time to get out before it turns ill.
Wow a cactus hasn’t got anything on you hunny! If you know your not making a effort with keeping yourself in tip top condition, with no effort of shaving your legs and other parts then something is up. Looking good for your man is part of the fun, if you not with it you need to get out before you start looking like Agatha Mumkin.
8Future plans misty
As a female we all think about the dreamy big white wedding, walking down the aisle with your handsome man, but you’re not even thinking like that no more. Now you thinking to back into the day when you was single and the steamy encounters you may have had…better times its seems.
9Checking in on your ex
Ok we ladies some of us may like to check up on are ex’s to see how he is doing, what he’s doing and even what he looks like now. But getting in contact with him even through social networks such as facebook and somewhat stalking him is going too far! Would you really be doing this if you was happy ask yourself this question.
10 love you … cringe
You stare blankly at him when he says these words ‘I love you’ forcing a smile back with crocodile teeth you reply ‘me too’ there really isn’t a bigger sign than that. These words should bring a warm fuzzy feeling and automatically have you staring into his eyes, but if this isn’t the case its time to say ‘erm.. we need to talk’