I have dated men who sometimes spend an overdue amount of time analizing me, testing me to try and see if i am hiding my true colors. Of course thats fine as everyone needs to have some form of security plan that makes you feel satisfied that the one you are dating is real. But the problem i a bit deeper then that. Some men now carry a little baggage from the last hell date or relationship and have now decided that the next girl they date wont have it so easy. So i thought why should a few girls spoil it for the rest of us and from that i’d make it easy for other guys out there that may not have come across these girls from hell and give some advise on how to avoid them.
I think i know it all girl
Every man likes an articulate woman, a girl who can voice her opinion, sound intelligent and impress your friends with a philosophical debate and to talk about David Cameron and politics. OK, maybe that’s pushing it a bit, but a girl with verbal confidence can be a hell of a turn-on for men. But let’s be realistic yer— while it’s always nice to date someone who is charismatic and well-versed, it’s something quite different for a man to date a woman who beats the opinionated war drum. The i think i know it all smart ass one of the types of women to avoid who will argue thru the night.
It doesn’t take a genius to know that wooing a some girls in this day and age requires a bit of effort, of body, soul and erm.. hate to say it, spending power. As standard romantic procedures, you’re going to have to take her for dinner, (not KFC lol) buy her flowers, whisk her away to Paris for the weekend, and show her that the world is your oyster and she’s the pearl. But if I can give a word of caution to the free-spending men out there , make sure she’s actually enjoying your company and not just your wallet. The Gold Digger is one of the types of women to avoid. She gives a bad name for us who generally like someone who just happens to be loaded. If guys if you start to notice that she’s expecting you to pay for everything and even the kitchen sink, your credit card bill should be enough of a red flag to warrant an emergency exit.
The ‘Already Got a Man on The Low’ Girl.
First off boys, you cannot date a married woman or a girl who is involved with another man when you meet her. A married woman who is playing both sides of the fence is giving you a free and full preview of how she treats men and what she really thinks about commitment. She is showing you that she has no integrity. If you choose to pursue this woman then good luck to ya but any nagative thing that happen to you is your own fault. you can’t be mad when it doesn’t work out or you end up getting played.
The I Dont need a man in my life girl
Some Women who live by this mantra are, again, giving you a full, free preview of what they think of men. Speaking as a woman, most of the females that I know who live by such mantras are usually using them to manipulate him into doing things for her.
They tell man repeatedly how a “man can’t do anything for them yet they wil allow men to pay for every (or any) date, and except gifts and will even get men paying a few bills here and there.
You’re being used…with your permission of course and when it ends (and it will) you’re left broke, busted and depressed. Your best bet is to run when you hear a woman utter the above mantras. All you’re doing by staying is volunteering to be emotionally and verbally abused.
I Am miss Insecure girl
These type of girls seems great at the start because she’s very nice, accommodating and treats men well. But her inner insecurities don’t take long to surface. Pretty soon she’s calling you 10 times a day, asking to see “where the relationship is going,” or because she “just wants to hear your voice.” She needs constant reassurance that she’s attractive, especially when other girls walk by and worries incessantly about her makeup, hair and the alignment of her clothes. She’s clingy, needy and compulsively agonizes that you’re going to leave her at any moment for “someone better.” This kind of thing can get really creepy really fast.
The Modern day girl
She says –
‘I do not cook, wash or clean – because I believe in equal rights’ ?
‘I am independent’
‘I do not need a man to fulfill me’
‘I dont like kids’
‘ Them girls are bitches ’ Blah blah blah.
You get what you ask for. Ambition has nothing to do with companionship – so get a grip. You did what you wanted to do and you should be glad (without having to say so) .Men beware
Daddies little girl
Ok i will admit im kinda like this when i was younger but ive changed (honest) Well these type of girls who where spoiled by her dad grew up having little or no responsibilities because everything that should have been responsible for was taken care of by daddy. Responsible adults should make up their beds, do their own laundry, and clean their own room.
Men who date a woman like this will probably expect to take on some of her responsibilities and mother her.
When men are seeking a long term relationship with someone they are looking for someone who will appreciate them for the person they are. They will try to avoid someone who will speak to them in a condescending way, or someone who will try to impose their will upon them. It’s all about respect, you have to give respect in order to earn it.