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February 5, 2011

Some couples who have been in a long relationship forget those little things that keeps the fire burning. Nowadays a long relationship is 2 years when back in the day that was a fling period. But if the fire has gone out in your relationship and you’ve tried and tried to relight it but find yourself doing the sort of things that yells out its over, then its time to stop putting the both of you through more pain and end it. Finishing a relationship is one of the hardest things to do and sometimes done prematurely. But what are the signs that proves to you its over. Here we put 10 signs for you to look out for if you think you are falling out of Love.

1You’d rather jump into bed and read a good book then jump into bed with him.

Has it been ages since you shifted that stick in to gear? Can’t remember when he had you orgasmic beyond your wildest dreams? Oh my, if your sex life has got so uninteresting that you find more pleasure in reading your book (chapter five was gripping by the way) rather than sliding into something naughty and lure him into the bedroom then girl…this isn’t good news.

2Working late every night rather then go home on time.
Stacks of paper work covering your desk is more engaging then your man? Would you prefer to get into work early then take full advantage of your mans good morning splendour? You spending more time at work in the evening with Brandon, the caretaker, then at home. If the answers are coming up yes then you don’t need to review your relationship you need to nip it in the bud.

3No longer making much of an effort notes on ideas for birthday gifts.
When its comes to getting our boyfriends gifts we are the queens of going out of our way to find out the perfect present, bugging our friends, his friends and family too. But if the day draws close like a week and you haven’t got or thought of anything, then doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out you don’t care like you used too.

4He’s more umm then aaaahhh now

Your boyfriend is your fantasy, looking at him is just yummy. He looks after your needs and wants, he’s your cream to your coffee, your bubbles to your bath. At no circumstances should you question your mans sex appeal or how much your attracted to him and so if you are its going to take more then a new dress sense to sort your predicament out. If you find yourself looking across the room at him and quietly kissing your teeth then you know that fire is washed out.

5His calls and text don’t make you smile anymore
Can you recall when you would crazily check your phone to see if he had texted? The stimulation and enjoyment of his calls? Even up to now you should still feel a warming affectionate to him when seeing his name on your screen. Having your boyfriend call you on a really bad day at work should take a some weight of you shoulders and put you more at ease. If it doesn’t then its time for the talk.

6Constantly engaging in flirtatious situations with men
Out with the girls enjoying a good time out, feeling naughty and troublesome taking numbers from random guys, and even thinking of meeting up with them? Well its self explanatory your mind is not on him indoors your hunger is for something else. And we dont want to cheat on him do we? so its time to get out before it turns ill.

7No shaving?!
Wow a cactus hasn’t got anything on you hunny! If you know your not making a effort with keeping yourself in tip top condition, with no effort of shaving your legs and other parts then something is up. Looking good for your man is part of the fun, if you not with it you need to get out before you start looking like Agatha Mumkin.

8Future plans misty
As a female we all think about the dreamy big white wedding, walking down the aisle with your handsome man, but you’re not even thinking like that no more. Now you thinking to back into the day when you was single and the steamy encounters you may have had…better times its seems.

9Checking in on your ex
Ok we ladies some of us may like to check up on are ex’s to see how he is doing, what he’s doing and even what he looks like now. But getting in contact with him even through social networks such as facebook and somewhat stalking him is going too far! Would you really be doing this if you was happy ask yourself this question.

10 love you … cringe
You stare blankly at him when he says these words ‘I love you’ forcing a smile back with crocodile teeth you reply ‘me too’ there really isn’t a bigger sign than that. These words should bring a warm fuzzy feeling and automatically have you staring into his eyes, but if this isn’t the case its time to say ‘erm.. we need to talk’



February 5, 2011

Oh we love braids and so does the whole world.
One of the ultimate aesthetic expressions for women of African descent has got to be braids. The hair style spans back to ancient Africa, and is so culturally significant that the technique was used to communicate different tribes and groups.

In the UK braids for Black women and men are often a look you go towards to be creative and also fuss-free.

From many years ago leading up to today, braiding has prompted a multi-million dollar division in the beauty industry. `High fahion thinks its too black when worn by women of color but are often worn by white chicks to give them that cool look. But now loads of salons, independent braiders, and hair products have emerged. Braided styles like the early nineties “dookie” or “goddess” braids have become a staple for women, adorned by golden beads and other hair ornaments.

Do you remember Brandy, the singer-actresses signature look centered on her gorgeous pigtail or knotted braids. Also Janet Jackson starred opposite Tupac Shakur in John Singleton’s “Poetic Justice” using her “goddess” braids as a cornerstone of her character’s personal style. And todays Alicia Keys who wears them so well.

But we can’t forget about the men , Lemar, Trey Songz, have worn the classic braided cornrows braided by the sista around the corner. Singer Mario even had a song called “Braid My Hair.’ lol

Throughout our collective memory, we can recollect the seconds, minutes, and hours that we’ve spent in between our mother’s knees, wincing with pain or at the community stylist, having our coiled strands interlocked together, tighter than Simon Cowells jeans.

Today, we can see the visual evolution and versatility of present day braided styles. The look has become more global, high-fashion, and has even taken cues from other cultures blending it with traditional African elements.

Braids are beautiful, diverse, sexy and classic. Here’s to the love of braids and all the beautiful people that wear it.



February 5, 2011

Love Nicki Minaj make up looks!!!!!
They are simple to do and most of all her looks are pretty much are the same just a tad bit of change with the eye shadows!!!
Also Nicki did a special edition of pink lipstick with MAC for her album pink friday and it did so well that she is in talks with them about a range!!!!
We hope you enjoy this video and master the Barbie Nicki look from her video ‘check it out’!!!



February 5, 2011

Dancing is a great way to get fit, have fun and get people staring at you in the night club!!!
There no real rules on how to dance just the basic techniques plus your own flavor!!!
I use to do street dancing when i was in my teens, it really help me express myself, relieve any stress, make friends, helped with dancing in music videos and also it was a lot of fun!!!!!
Also you can tell if someone is a dancer by their walk, dancers seem to have a certain swagga about it.
So here is a video that can show you how to dance sexy for any occasion!!!!



February 4, 2011

We are so immature when it comes to this subject!!!
But we really think it should be addressed, as it is something a lot of people have questions about but never get a straight answer!!!! (giggle)
No im not going to actually tell you what “doing a chocolate button is, as my mother might be reading this, but hopefully you will guess by the time you read on.
And those who know can share it with those who want to know lol.

This must be the story we heard when we where younger teens , you know the story of one of those things to do before you put the peanut in the peanut hole!!!! lol 😛
Most of our older friends says foreplay is the best bit and its more of a turn on than the actual main love making!!!
So one of the questions that comes up when us girls talk about love making is the term chocolate button, what is it? and if it should be used or it should stay off limits……

One of our male friends told us a story about their experience with it, so here is the story…..
So they heard about the chocolate button being used with their friends girlfriends and thought WOW is that how your going on!!!!
So they listened about the details and how it was done, and then took that information and tried it with their girlfriend. Amazingly she screamed (lol out of surprise) but loved it and before you know it she told all her friends!!!

I am still shocked about the story as i had never met anyone who had experienced the chocolate button and the information and the whole idea, but hearing the reviews on the chocolate button it all seems to be great for the one who is getting it done on them!!!!! But what about the one whos giving it?? This is where i get like “bwoy i dunno’, if i could but (;p) then again you never know.

We still think the chocolate button is for the grown and experienced over 27’s and who are willing to experiment in the bedroom department.
So if your thinking of doing it, a great idea is to be clean when doing anything, so make sure that you and your partner shower and remember chocolates are made for sharing lol



February 4, 2011

I remember the first time i shaved my legs i was soooo scared of how to do it, and if i was doing it wrong, what would happen after?!!!! Also i got quite a few cuts, darn that tricky ankle area! because i didn’t know what i was doing!!!
Shaving legs is the quick easy way of getting rid of that hair so here is a video on how to do it properly incase you still shave in the wrong direction lol !!!!!



February 4, 2011

We love girls of color, and especially the ones who like rocking the new fashion trends!!!!
Have you ever felt like making our own style, but wasn’t to sure of what people would say about you? ,
Do you listen to music that’s hasn’t hit main stream and it wont get to heard in months, and you also listen to hip hop or alternative music but you don’t really look the part?

Well girl this blog is all about you and we got a few tips for you and how you can express your self with your clothing, make-up and over all style!!!!!
Just to let you know there are no rules!!!!!!!!!!!!
Being you is being the future!!!!!!

There is so much things you can do with your hair, you can dye it all sorts of colours and there are so many ways of styling your hair!!!!!
Here are one of many ways to style your hair, quick and easy!!!! 😛
We know a lot of girls with great amazing hair but just don’t know how to manage it!!!
We really do recommend for you to look for a texturizer or a perm to tame your hair, it will be better for you in the long term as brushing tough knotty hair could really damage your hair, and could cause alopecia and no one wants that !!!! lol
Plus with all these perms that you buy the really good products will come with a great conditioning treatments to restore the moisture in your hair!!!
if you can’t afford to go to the hair dressers, there are tone of Afro Caribbean hair shops all over especially London and you can also go on the net, and order the best recommended product that can help you!!! Click here for one of our favorite hair shops online!!

Here is a quick cute hair style for long or short hair that can be done in 2 seconds!!!!
Brush or comb your hair to one side, making sure the side you brush from your face is your best angle, and simply use a clip, pin, grip any hair accessory that can hold your hair in place!!!!
Dont for get to put your own personal touch on it!!!
Like a Bow clip or ribbon or even a hat on the side to add some personal flavour to your hair style!!!

Another cute scene style that is the ‘ Just woke up look’ It all about not having the perfect up do!!!!
So that means you hair tied to the side and random chunks of hair fall down where your sideburns should be.

Full fringe known as a bang is quite popular and would look great with ‘i just woke up look’ so what you can do is the same thing but instead of moving your hair to the side or backwards, just brush it down your face and find a length that you like and snip snip. We would advise to go to a hairdresser to get that done as it is in front of your face and if it goes wrong, im sure there will be tears!!!! So if your going to do it your self make sure your hair is dry when you cut it, or your bang may end up really short and also its a good idea to cut it longer than cut it too short!

Simple is great for everyday look so some eyeliner black or brown, this will bring out your eyes what ever colour it is, mascara (optional), and some foundation (if you’ve got some blemishes or spots).
For more days you want to make an effort and impress you can add r eye shadows of what ever colour you feel to wear (We love our pink and purple shimmering eye shadow from Barry M). Great false eyelashes and if your feeling adventurous even contacts!!! 😛

Skinny Jeans short shorts and leggings are a must!!!!
Also if you have any graphic tees or jumpers [tee shirts with words or pictures on them] wear them, they are super cool and especially when they have great positive sayings on them !!!!!

Some major scene characters to wear on your shirt are Hello Kitty, Barbie, Power Puff girls,Disney, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, and basically any wacky looking things.
Also with these clothes to make it look unique you can get your glue gun and add anything on to them that you think is kool or even cut the clothes a bit to show a bit of flesh (we do like the sexy chick look)!!!!!!

It doesn’t matter if its branded or not, as long as it looks good we are good to go!!!!
But here are a few shoes and trainers we like, converse, vans, or flat pumps, nike dunks, army boots, knee high boots, ankle boots, really anything goes as long as it looks good with your outfit!!!!!!!!! 😛

Simply get your nails done from plain colour to 3D designs with your own personal touch on them!!!! 😛

We hope you’ve enjoyed this post and has helped you become your own TRENDY CHICK OF COLOUR!!!!!!