Posts Tagged ‘men’



January 26, 2011

The following advise for ‘What a man wants in a women’ might vary for every of guy, but most guys are quite simple and just want the following….

Good Sex

Let’s not pretend that its just men who are looking for a capable and attentive sexual partner. We would be doing women an injustice if we didn’t give them credit for their sensual side. Men want a partner who will be willing to share her affection physically without intimidating him. I have seen it happen – some women simply look too intense or “hot” for men to approach. Sociologists tell us this could be because men are concerned about their ability to “please” these women in bed. To that end, there is something to be said for “dressing down” and being yourself. Some ways to show a man you’re interested in providing the physical attention he wants is through subtle gestures and touching. Graze his arm with your hand, let your hips touch casually, or just outright put your hand on his face – playfully. The point of subtle touch is to make him think it was casual, so don’t be too serious about it. By allowing for casual touch, you’ll be planting a seed in his mind. Besides, you can find out if you even like touching him long before committing to a date. Don’t be intimidated by men’s desire for good sex – after all, isn’t it one of your desires, too?

Healthy Appearance

There is no ideal physical appearance, no perfect female standard to adhere to. It’s important to maintain your health, take care of yourself, and practice good hygiene. Most men I talk to say that women stand out for simple reasons – some men look for red hair, still others are after an attractive smile. Men will either be attracted to a woman initially, or they won’t. By paying attention to your health (eating fruits and vegetables, trying to stay within a healthy weight range) and practicing basic hygiene (brushing your teeth, keeping your hair clean) you will do yourself and your potential dates a favor. Whether or not a man is attracted to you is out of your hands. The best you can do is prepare yourself – and by the way, keeping your body healthy is a good idea in general. A healthy body is a happy body, and good general health leads to good mental health. You have no say in whether or not a man is attracted to you, but you do have control over your health.


The word “trust” here refers not just to a man’s ability to trust that you won’t cheat on him, but his ability to come to you for his emotional needs. All people require trust before they’re willing to share with someone on a deep level – the kind of level that is healthy for a relationship. If a man thinks you’ll listen to his problems and immediately rush off to the internet to Twitter all your friends about it, he won’t have that sense of trust necessary to really develop a relationship. In fact, a lack of trust can lead to some really unhealthy partnering. A many may be willing, for instance, to have sex with you or flirt with you, but a perceived lack of trust will keep him from really connecting with his partner. You will become, pardon the expression, a “booty call” – not because he’s a jerk, but because he doesn’t trust you enough to move the relationship into the next phase.

Sense of Humor

Men and women both need humor in their lives to stay happy. Humor is also a great icebreaker in many different difficult situations. How many times has a simple joke turned an awkward first date into a relaxed good time, or how often have you used humor to “disarm” someone you’ve been attracted to? There will most certainly come times in your relationship that a good joke will keep a minor disagreement from becoming a full fledged argument. Humor works because it breaks down our sense of ourselves, relaxes us physically (laughter being the best medicine), and shows people around us that we have a playful and friendly side. Men want a woman with a sense of humor for the same reason women want the same thing in a man – humor keeps our mood bright, and can even ignite passion. It turns out, laughter is also one of the best aphrodisiacs, and men will find your sense of humor, no matter how goofy or corny, a serious turn on.



January 22, 2011

I have dated men who sometimes spend an overdue amount of time analizing me, testing me to try and see if i am hiding my true colors. Of course thats fine as everyone needs to have some form of security plan that makes you feel satisfied that the one you are dating is real. But the problem i a bit deeper then that. Some men now carry a little baggage from the last hell date or relationship and have now decided that the next girl they date wont have it so easy. So i thought why should a few girls spoil it for the rest of us and from that i’d make it easy for other guys out there that may not have come across these girls from hell and give some advise on how to avoid them.

I think i know it all girl

Every man likes an articulate woman, a girl who can voice her opinion, sound intelligent and impress your friends with a philosophical debate and to talk about David Cameron and politics. OK, maybe that’s pushing it a bit, but a girl with verbal confidence can be a hell of a turn-on for men. But let’s be realistic yer— while it’s always nice to date someone who is charismatic and well-versed, it’s something quite different for a man to date a woman who beats the opinionated war drum. The i think i know it all smart ass one of the types of women to avoid who will argue thru the night.

The Sugar Daddy Girl

It doesn’t take a genius to know that wooing a some girls in this day and age requires a bit of effort, of body, soul and erm.. hate to say it, spending power. As standard romantic procedures, you’re going to have to take her for dinner, (not KFC lol) buy her flowers, whisk her away to Paris for the weekend, and show her that the world is your oyster and she’s the pearl. But if I can give a word of caution to the free-spending men out there , make sure she’s actually enjoying your company and not just your wallet. The Gold Digger is one of the types of women to avoid. She gives a bad name for us who generally like someone who just happens to be loaded. If guys if you start to notice that she’s expecting you to pay for everything and even the kitchen sink, your credit card bill should be enough of a red flag to warrant an emergency exit.

The ‘Already Got a Man on The Low’ Girl.

First off boys, you cannot date a married woman or a girl who is involved with another man when you meet her. A married woman who is playing both sides of the fence is giving you a free and full preview of how she treats men and what she really thinks about commitment. She is showing you that she has no integrity. If you choose to pursue this woman then good luck to ya but any nagative thing that happen to you is your own fault. you can’t be mad when it doesn’t work out or you end up getting played.

The I Dont need a man in my life girl

Some Women who live by this mantra are, again, giving you a full, free preview of what they think of men. Speaking as a woman, most of the females that I know who live by such mantras are usually using them to manipulate him into doing things for her.
They tell man repeatedly how a “man can’t do anything for them yet they wil allow men to pay for every (or any) date, and except gifts and will even get men paying a few bills here and there.
You’re being used…with your permission of course and when it ends (and it will) you’re left broke, busted and depressed. Your best bet is to run when you hear a woman utter the above mantras. All you’re doing by staying is volunteering to be emotionally and verbally abused.

I Am miss Insecure girl

These type of girls seems great at the start because she’s very nice, accommodating and treats men well. But her inner insecurities don’t take long to surface. Pretty soon she’s calling you 10 times a day, asking to see “where the relationship is going,” or because she “just wants to hear your voice.” She needs constant reassurance that she’s attractive, especially when other girls walk by and worries incessantly about her makeup, hair and the alignment of her clothes. She’s clingy, needy and compulsively agonizes that you’re going to leave her at any moment for “someone better.” This kind of thing can get really creepy really fast.

The Modern day girl

She says –
‘I do not cook, wash or clean – because I believe in equal rights’ ?
‘I am independent’
‘I do not need a man to fulfill me’
‘I dont like kids’
‘ Them girls are bitches ’ Blah blah blah.
You get what you ask for. Ambition has nothing to do with companionship – so get a grip. You did what you wanted to do and you should be glad (without having to say so) .Men beware

Daddies little girl
Ok i will admit im kinda like this when i was younger but ive changed (honest) Well these type of girls who where spoiled by her dad grew up having little or no responsibilities because everything that should have been responsible for was taken care of by daddy. Responsible adults should make up their beds, do their own laundry, and clean their own room.
Men who date a woman like this will probably expect to take on some of her responsibilities and mother her.

When men are seeking a long term relationship with someone they are looking for someone who will appreciate them for the person they are. They will try to avoid someone who will speak to them in a condescending way, or someone who will try to impose their will upon them. It’s all about respect, you have to give respect in order to earn it.